Insomnia

Sleep Maintenance Insomnia

Feldenkrais Sleep · Updated 2026-09-24

Sleep maintenance insomnia — waking repeatedly, or waking and being unable to return to sleep — is at least as common as difficulty falling asleep and is often more distressing, because you know sleep was available and you could not hold onto it.

Why sleep fragments

Three mechanisms account for most cases.

1. Sleep pressure is spread too thin

If you are in bed much longer than you sleep, the pressure that should carry you through the night is spread across too many hours. You fall asleep quickly and then surface repeatedly, because there is not enough pressure left to keep you under. This is the single most common cause and the most treatable — see sleep restriction.

2. Arousal rises in the second half of the night

Alcohol clearance, temperature changes, noise, reflux, apnoea events, or a body that cannot settle into a comfortable position. The 3am wake is the classic form — see waking up at 3am.

3. Conditioned wakefulness

Each awakening becomes an opportunity to check the clock, calculate remaining sleep, and start worrying. The awakening is normal; the response is what makes it last.

Ruling out the physical causes first

Before behavioural work, check for the conditions that mimic maintenance insomnia:

What consolidates the night

  1. Compress time in bed to match actual sleep time. Uncomfortable for a week or two, then decisive.
  2. No alcohol within four hours of bed. If you have never tried a two-week break, you do not know whether it is your cause.
  3. Fixed wake time regardless of the night's quality.
  4. Do not process awakenings. No clock-checking, no calculation. Turn the clock away.
  5. Use the 20-minute rule — see stimulus control.
  6. Lower the physical load before bed with the bedtime routine.

Expectations

Sleep restriction makes fragmentation worse before it makes it better — the first week can feel like a deterioriation. Consolidation usually becomes obvious in weeks two to three, and continues improving as the window is gradually widened.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is waking up once or twice normal?
Yes. Brief awakenings between sleep cycles are universal. The problem is waking and staying awake, especially when it happens most nights.
Why do I wake more as I get older?
Ageing reduces slow-wave sleep and increases fragmentation. Some change is normal; distressing, unrefreshing sleep is treatable. See sleep after 60.
Will sleeping pills stop the waking?
They can reduce it short-term but do not address the cause, and tolerance develops. Behavioural treatment has better long-term outcomes.
Does a weighted blanket help?
Some people find the deep-pressure input calming. Evidence is limited but it is a low-risk thing to try. See weighted blankets.

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