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Sleep Stages: What Happens While You Are Asleep

Feldenkrais Sleep · Updated 2026-09-24

Sleep is not a single state that deepens and then lifts. It is a cycle through distinct stages, repeated four to six times a night, with the composition changing dramatically between the first and second half. Understanding this explains most sleep complaints, including why a short night hurts more than you would expect.

The stages

The cycle

A full cycle runs roughly 90 minutes, though it varies between individuals and across the night. Early cycles contain most of the deep sleep; later cycles contain most of the REM. This asymmetry has practical consequences:

Why you wake at cycle boundaries

Brief awakenings between cycles are universal — most people have several a night and do not remember them. Problems start when an awakening becomes prolonged, which is what maintenance insomnia is. The cycle boundary is the opportunity; the response determines whether it matters.

What wearables can and cannot tell you

Consumer devices estimate stages from movement and heart rate. They are reasonably good at telling sleep from wake in aggregate and poor at distinguishing specific stages — quiet wakefulness is routinely scored as light sleep. Treat stage breakdowns as entertainment rather than measurement. See orthosomnia.

Why this matters practically

Frequently Asked Questions

How long is a sleep cycle?
About 90 minutes on average, varying between individuals and across the night. Most people complete four to six cycles.
Which stage is most important?
Both deep sleep and REM matter, for different functions. Deep sleep dominates the first half of the night; REM the second.
Can I improve my deep sleep?
Indirectly: regular exercise, consistent timing, no alcohol, and cooler temperatures all help. Supplements claiming to boost deep sleep have little evidence.
Why do I feel worse after a short night than the hours suggest?
Because sleep lost from the end of the night is disproportionately REM, which affects mood, memory and emotional regulation.

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